OPINION | Politics Is Not War: Rising Above The Pain Of Primaries.

The recently concluded NRM primary elections were, as always, full of colour, energy, and passion. For many, they were a celebration of democracy—an opportunity for the party to test its internal strength and select flag bearers who will represent it in the forthcoming general elections.

But for others, the primaries were a bitter pill to swallow—filled with accusations, heartbreak,

confusion, and even disillusionment. From the cheers of victory to the silence of disappointment, it was clear that for some, the end of the primaries felt like the end of the road.

But let me say this, from a heart that has watched and written about politics for decades: politics is not a do-or-die affair. It never has been, and it should never be.

One election cannot and should not determine the worth of a person. It should not define one’s purpose, nor should it be the reason to make enemies out of friends, or turn colleagues into lifelong rivals. We must outgrow the culture of

political desperation where defeat is treated as disgrace and where those who don’t go through are cast aside or driven to rebellion.

To those who didn’t win this time around, remember—there is always another chance. There is life beyond elections. There is purpose beyond politics.

Yes, the emotions are valid. The frustration is understandable. Some candidates believe they were unfairly treated. Some are alleging malpractice, rigging, and manipulation. These are not small concerns. The party leadership must take these matters seriously and investigate wherever there is evidence of wrongdoing.

The strength of any political party lies in the fairness of its processes. When members feel betrayed by their own systems, it undermines

trust and loyalty.

That said, not every loss is the result of cheating. Some contests were free and fair, and in those cases, the results must be respected even if they bring disappointment.

For those who feel cheated and have clear grounds to challenge the process, the door to independent candidature is open. It is a legal and constitutional path.

And no one should be intimidated or ridiculed for choosing it. Uganda’s democracy allows room for individuals to contest outside of party structures if

They believe that the people still want their leadership. But that decision must come from a place of clarity—not bitterness. Let it be driven by conviction, not vengeance.

Equally important, there are those who, after deep reflection, realize that the loss was genuine. To such people, I say: your role in the party is still important, rally behind the flag bearers. Offer your support. Let your loyalty shine.

The NRM is a family, and like every family, there will be disagreements and setbacks—but unity must always win in the end. Personal ambition

should never be placed above the collective good of the party.

Today’s winner may need your advice and support. Tomorrow, the tables may turn.

Let us stop making politics a battleground. Let us refuse to turn every election into a war. Politics is about service, not supremacy. It is about vision, not vengeance. Our people are tired of endless political squabbles.

They want leaders who care more about development than drama. They want hope, not

hostility. Let us give them that.

To those who feel that their journey has come to an abrupt end because they didn’t secure the party flag—don’t lose hope. Politics is only one form of leadership. Uganda is a country that needs builders in every sector.

We need teachers, nurses, farmers, faith leaders, innovators, entrepreneurs, and mentors.

There are many ways to serve your people and your country, and often, those ways are just as impactful as holding public office.

True leadership is not limited to a ballot paper. It is defined by your heart, your vision, your commitment to the community, and your willingness to uplift others.

 One election should not break you. One seat should not define your future. The people who believe in you will still be there, and your influence can remain powerful—even outside the corridors of Parliament.

To those who won—congratulations, but wear your victory with humility reach

out to those you competed against, unite your supporters and listen to your critics.

Be a symbol of reconciliation and strength, this is the time to prove that you were not just chosen to lead, but also called to serve.

And to all party members, let us not forget the bigger picture. Uganda is bigger

than all of us. The NRM is stronger when its members are united, focused, and

disciplined.

 Let us not allow internal rivalries to divide us, let us protect our party’s legacy and future with dignity, decorum, and respect.

The primary elections are over, now, the real work begins.